Fix user-stopped flag timing and service transition handling

Correct user-stopped service behavior during startup transitions:

User-Stopped Flag Timing Fix:
- Clear user-stopped flag only when service actually becomes active, not when start command succeeds
- Remove premature flag clearing from service control handler
- Add automatic flag clearing when service status metrics show active state
- Services retain user-stopped status during activating/transitioning states

Service Transition Handling:
- User-stopped services in activating state now report Status::OK instead of Status::Pending
- Prevents host warnings during legitimate service startup transitions
- Maintains accurate status reporting throughout service lifecycle
- Failed service starts preserve user-stopped flags correctly

Journalctl Popup Fix:
- Fix terminal corruption when using J key for service logs
- Correct command quoting to prevent tmux popup interference
- Stable popup display without dashboard interface corruption

Result: Clean service startup experience with no false warnings and proper
user-stopped tracking throughout the entire service lifecycle.

Bump version to v0.1.47

dashboard/Cargo.toml

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 [package]
 name = "cm-dashboard"
-version = "0.1.46"
+version = "0.1.47"
 edition = "2021"
 
 [dependencies]

dashboard/src/ui/mod.rs

@@ -302,7 +302,7 @@ ssh -tt {}@{} 'bash -ic {}'",
                             .arg("-h") 
                             .arg("80%")
                             .arg("-t")
-                            .arg(format!("Logs: {}.service", service_name))
+                            .arg(format!("Logs: {}", service_name))
                             .arg(&journalctl_command)
                             .spawn()
                             .ok(); // Ignore errors, tmux will handle them