Fix user-stopped flag timing and service transition handling

Correct user-stopped service behavior during startup transitions:

User-Stopped Flag Timing Fix:
- Clear user-stopped flag only when service actually becomes active, not when start command succeeds
- Remove premature flag clearing from service control handler
- Add automatic flag clearing when service status metrics show active state
- Services retain user-stopped status during activating/transitioning states

Service Transition Handling:
- User-stopped services in activating state now report Status::OK instead of Status::Pending
- Prevents host warnings during legitimate service startup transitions
- Maintains accurate status reporting throughout service lifecycle
- Failed service starts preserve user-stopped flags correctly

Journalctl Popup Fix:
- Fix terminal corruption when using J key for service logs
- Correct command quoting to prevent tmux popup interference
- Stable popup display without dashboard interface corruption

Result: Clean service startup experience with no false warnings and proper
user-stopped tracking throughout the entire service lifecycle.

Bump version to v0.1.47

Cargo.lock

@@ -270,7 +270,7 @@ checksum = "a1d728cc89cf3aee9ff92b05e62b19ee65a02b5702cff7d5a377e32c6ae29d8d"
 
 [[package]]
 name = "cm-dashboard"
-version = "0.1.45"
+version = "0.1.46"
 dependencies = [
  "anyhow",
  "chrono",
@@ -291,7 +291,7 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "cm-dashboard-agent"
-version = "0.1.45"
+version = "0.1.46"
 dependencies = [
  "anyhow",
  "async-trait",
@@ -314,7 +314,7 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "cm-dashboard-shared"
-version = "0.1.45"
+version = "0.1.46"
 dependencies = [
  "chrono",
  "serde",