Fix transitional icons by always storing pending transitions for visual feedback

- Store pending transitions even for redundant commands (start active service)
- Add 3-second timeout for redundant command visual feedback
- Include timestamp in pending transitions to enable timeout clearing
- Show directional arrows immediately regardless of command validation result
- Fix core issue where state validation prevented visual feedback storage

Now pressing s/S/r always shows immediate directional arrows, even for
redundant operations, providing consistent visual feedback to users.

Cargo.lock

@@ -270,7 +270,7 @@ checksum = "a1d728cc89cf3aee9ff92b05e62b19ee65a02b5702cff7d5a377e32c6ae29d8d"
 
 [[package]]
 name = "cm-dashboard"
-version = "0.1.24"
+version = "0.1.25"
 dependencies = [
  "anyhow",
  "chrono",
@@ -291,7 +291,7 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "cm-dashboard-agent"
-version = "0.1.24"
+version = "0.1.25"
 dependencies = [
  "anyhow",
  "async-trait",
@@ -314,7 +314,7 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "cm-dashboard-shared"
-version = "0.1.24"
+version = "0.1.25"
 dependencies = [
  "chrono",
  "serde",